Rescue Dog Training Tips: Establishing Rules and Boundaries
1. The Trouble with the "Rescue" Label
Laura & Kim argue that the term "rescue" is often overused and can be detrimental.
The Sympathy Trap: Using the word "rescue" often triggers a sympathetic response from the owner. This pity can get in the way of a "healthy relationship" because owners act out of guilt rather than setting boundaries.
Alternative Terminology: They prefer terms like "Second Chance Dogs" or "Rehomed Dogs." This shifts the focus from a (sometimes imagined) tragic past to a hopeful future.
2. Avoiding "The Backstory"
A major pitfall for new owners is inventing traumatic histories to explain a dog's behavior (e.g., "He’s afraid of the broom, so he must have been beaten").
Assumptions vs. Reality: Fearful behavior is often just a dog’s innate personality or a lack of socialization, rather than a history of abuse.
Live in the Present: Regardless of what might have happened, you must deal with the dog as they are today. Making assumptions based on imagination does the dog a disservice.
3. The Importance of Rules from Day One
The hosts emphasize that clarity and consistency are the kindest things you can provide a new dog.
The Comfort of Structure: Dogs feel secure when they understand the "rules of the house." Waiting to establish rules until the dog is "comfortable" actually causes more confusion and anxiety.
Fairness: It is unfair to give a dog total freedom for three months and then suddenly take it away.
Common Boundaries:
Crate training or designated confinement areas (for safety).
Furniture access (deciding which rooms/couches are allowed).
Door etiquette (not pushing past the owner).
4. The "Honeymoon Period" and Behavior
New owners should be aware that a dog’s true personality may not emerge immediately.
4-6 Weeks: It can take over a month for a dog to fully settle in.
Don't Ignore Red Flags: If you see a behavior you don't like (resource guarding, reactivity, etc.), address it immediately. Do not assume it will go away as the dog gets comfortable; without intervention, bad habits usually get worse.
Seek Help: If you don't have the tools to fix a behavior, get professional help early rather than waiting months for the problem to solidify.
Summary Quote
"Today is the first day of the rest of your time together... move forward with the idea that everything’s wonderful. This is a great situation."